Why is it that when a man is 14 years older than a woman he gets an atta boy? No one seems to think much of it - men or women. But let a woman get involved with a man 14 years her junior and everyone has plenty to say. There is a lot to be said for younger men I have found out. At least the one I know. He likes to do things and go places rather than sitting home in front of the TV. He's not as uptight as older men are. He's fun. He's shown me things I've never seen before - taken me places I've never been before. He likes to go out and have a good time. I enjoy his company and I just don't see anything wrong with that.

My Brit partner died in October of 2005 and I have had a very hard time getting over it. It's only lately that I've begun to feel like life isn't over yet and there are still things to look forward to and things to enjoy. I've gotten a new lease on life. When I was 18 I had a motorcycle and this spring I am seriously thinking of buying another. Next to flying, for my money, there's nothing like driving a bike. When I had a bike before very few women drove one. And now there may not be many women my age out there with bikes but who cares? So I think I'm gonna go for it.

I don't know if the relationship I have now is going to continue or not. He seems to be having a hard time with the age difference sometimes but I didn't start it - he did. He seems to be worried about the future - I like things just the way they are. Just taking things day to day. I've had enough of commitments and worrying about the future. Now I just want to have some fun and enjoy ilfe and not worry about what tomorrow will bring. Usually it never brings what you thought it would anyway. So why worry about it.

Well as Scarlett said in "Gone With The WInd" - Tomorrow is another day. And for me it's a working day so off I go.